Do you know that you can trigger a man’s desire to commit to just you? Discover how to create that feeling of “you’re the only woman I want” with these five guidelines. While an initial spark is all it takes for a man to ask you out and crave you sexually, but physical and sexual attraction isn't enough for him to want to commit to you exclusively. He needs to feel that he can’t wait to make you his and that he can’t stand the thought of seeing you with someone else. Rather than having “the talk” or giving him ultimatums, wouldn’t it be great if you could create that feeling so that he is the one asking you for a commitment? You can if you practice these things I'm about to teach you: DON’T keep bringing up the “commitment” talk. When you feel anxious or worried about wher...
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No one ever said relationships are easy 100% of the time and there are obvious ways that you can self-sabotage your relationship. Joining the lives of two people is almost always an exercise in patience, trust, and honesty which aren't traits that come easily to everyone. In fact, many of us engage in habits that can be damaging to our relationships oftentimes without even knowing it. Which is, of course, totally human. As long as you learn from your mistakes and make an effort to change, they aren't usually the end of the world. However, if you make relationship mistakes on the regular (think lying, cheating, keeping secrets) and make zero effort to clean up your ways, you can reasonably expect the whole thing to go up in smoke. In order to have a healthy thing going on, you'...
Read MoreDEVELOP EMPATHY AND REALLY LISTEN TO EACH OTHER. Good communication often starts with a desire to understand other points of view. How many arguments have you had that have just spiraled out of control because no one is really listening or attempting to understand? I think one of the most important things we can all do, whether for a relationship or not, is to develop a strong sense of empathy and compassion. Grudge-holding, bitter thoughts and and negativity towards others will only backfire if you hold onto it. Communication is one of the strongest things that can help a couple bond well. Learn to communicate your thoughts clearly so your partner can understand how you feel and also listen when they are trying to talk to you too. SPEND QUALITY TIME AS A COUPLE REGULAR...
Read MoreI came across an article I wrote last year for a different blog and it actually inspired me to talk about SUPPORTING YOUR PARTNER. We all know the celebrity couple Adesua Etomi and Banky W. Banky who contested in 2019 for a spot at the House of Representatives. Adesuaʼs words to her Husband then actually melted my heart. As she introduced her husband to the stage at an event where he made public his desire to run as an MP, Adesua told the audience in a speech that Nigeria deserves a Man like Banky, she went ahead to say these words.. “It has been an absolute honor to walk life with you. To walk through life with you. I can't wait for the world to know you like I do. I'm proud to be on your team. You inspire me more than anyone else in this world. In awe of you. Here for you and wi...
Read MoreI've not really taken time to talk about Love languages even though it's actually one of my favorite relationship topics… I tell couples in relationships who come to me for counseling that discovering your partnerʼs love language is the first step to having a happy, healthy and successful Relationship. Imagine two people each speaking their native language excitedly to each other without either person understanding the other. That's what I would call a conversation of the deaf. The scenario is ironic because conversations about the importance of communication in relationships are not likely to end anytime soon, especially as it relates to speaking the love language of your partner. Even the most compatible couples quickly run into trouble when they fail to communicate properly. After...
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