WRITTEN BY : KAUNA HOPE BAKO
So I noticed that a lot of men, including boys permit me to say now know so much about what a wife material looks and sound like that we cannot drink water and keep cup again, but I am in doubt if they understand what a husband material should and shouldn’t be.
Lend me your voices my dear ladies to speak out about what I ‘a woman’ think a husband material should look and sound like…
Feel free to drop a comment if you want to add something.
This isn’t a battle of sexes. If you want to be bias and defensive,just pass. I tag this
“LOVE VS SUBMISSION”
True, one isn’t a condition for the other, but one isn’t also independent of the other.
A woman does not have an automatic submit button in her brain that can be pressed once in need. But yes, she responds with submission if her brain picks up signals of genuine affection.
There is something that shrinks refer to as a S-R relationship which has now been standardised as stimulus-cognitive process – response relationship.
Submission is a form of response to love and kindness. Nobody submits in hostile situations (war situations have proven that) it negates self preservation.
However love is able to surmount all hurdles, if you both are in love this shouldn’t be a contest. A woman will grovel at your feet if she knows you got her back. (All encompassing by the way)
Instead of squeezing your woman’s hands into submission, try fixing your feelings towards each other.
Let the foundation be Love and understanding not a power tussle. Do not ask for what you can’t give, that’s being selfish. Are you willing to give the level of Love, attention, submission and trust you’re looking out for? As much as you want a wife material, we too want a husband material.
There’s no formula for a successful marriage, marriage tips don’t make marriage work, the parties involved do. How prepared are you as a Man to make things work, let’s not leave the preparation for the women alone. Men please get to work. Thank you
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