Ladies, I hope these things can help us to know exactly how to attract a Good Man, I’m not saying these things must be followed to the later, of course all of them ain’t the same.
Men differ from each other, What attracts 1 might not necessarily be what will attract the other. So firstly, you just have to know the kind of Man you would like to be with then it will be easier to attract him, because once your mind is conditioned, your brain and your heart and all your senses will follow suite, that way you won’t make the mistake of falling for the wrong guy… Note that you don’t keep a Man by giving him everything, you keep a Man by Learning, Giving him love moderately so they can get hungry for more… Here are a few things you can do to achieve this 👇🏼
=> DRESS FEMININE.
This is quite important because as we all know these men are attracted by what they see and most women are attracted by what they hear (I will do that on another day though). Ladies, dress the way you want to be addressed. This is actually a good way of attracting a good Man that knows exactly what he wants.
=> MEN ARE DIFFERENT FROM WOMEN..
They act, think and behave differently. They are hunters and don’t like to be hunted, they love challenges. So instead of going after him, CREATE an avenue for him to go after you instead.
=> MEN HATE DIRTY WOMEN.
Okay, let’s get down to business here… Really, MEN HATE DIRTY WOMEN.. Try the much you can to always appear NEAT, both in and out (you know what I mean Berries). We are the ones to suffer it in the end if we don’t keep our bodies clean and more so because we have to represent in the other room too <winkz> (+18). Just do whatever you can to always scent nice, they get attracted by that too.
=> MEN LOVES PRIVACY.
Really sometimes just give it to them, I do understand that we always want to be given attention but trust me, sometimes you just have to give them that space so they won’t get bored, let them hang out with their buddies, allow them play their games, it won’t take long and they will start missing you… Trust me😉.
=> A MAN DOESN’T LIE WHEN HE TELLS YOU HE DOESN’T LOVE YOU.
If a Guy tells you he doesn’t love you, please just walk away with the dignity that’s still left of you. Because if you decide to stay and pressure him, you might end up getting him eventually but mark it, IT WON’T LAST.. It’s either he uses you and walks away or you eventually get tired of fueling that relationship with love. It’s better that he woes you and that’s the way its meant to be.
=> During the initial stage, A man must be an open book while a woman becomes a Mystery. Don’t meet a Man and start telling him how bad your parents, guidance, pastor etc are. One step at a time dearie.. You don’t have to open up too fast, don’t say things you will regret, you must not answer every question. He came for you, let him do all the workings and thinking and once the time is right and you know he’s right for you then you can begin to open up bit by bit.
=> Men like Independent Women. Both financially and Emotionally Independent. Don’t make the Man an Obsession. Show him Respect.
=> Be the different kind of girl. Don’t spoil a Man, what makes the difference is doing what every other girl hasn’t done.
=> DON’T PLAY A WIFE FOR A MAN..
This is quite important, although it’s hard these days because most people start playing wives right from school days. It’s actually wrong in the true sense. Be scarce, it would make him want to hurry up and put a ring on that finger so he can finally bring you home as his wife.
Finally.. No matter how good your product is, if you don’t market it well you won’t get a good Buyer… Get yourself busy, Package yourself well and most importantly *GET CLOSER TO GOD*. Let the Man find you and not the other way around. When you’re closer to God, it’s easier for the right Man to locate you because he’s close to God too and he will give him both the Map and the Compass to find you with. Ladies, PRAY! and don’t stop PRAYING! Cos you’re either the source of a Man’s downfall or the source of his Blessings… Make yourself available for God to use you to Bless that Man whom will be yours Forever..
I hope you enjoyed this Article..
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